By Donna Rich, R.N.
Seven months ago my husband announced that he was just laid off from his marine construction job. I looked around our dream home, one block from our beloved ocean…the Olympic-sized pool in the backyard and an upstairs deck for our teenagers to hang with their friends. There was, I admit, in a brief moment of panic, but then the reality set in.
“I can go back to nursing,” I reminded Dave. We smiled at each other. I’d had a couple of years off, to work on my writing, but both of us had always known that someday I’d go back. “Someday just came a little sooner, honey,” I added, giving his arm a squeeze as I Googled nursing jobs in our area.
My nursing career of two-plus decades has provided a steady and certain ability to support my family, regardless of economic well-being or instability. Wherever we’ve lived, when I was married, when I was a single mom, I have been able to find work. People get sick wherever you live, and no matter how tough times are, patients always need their nurses.
So here I am, sitting at my desk, writing. From time to time, I gaze out my window at waves crashing and seagulls diving in the ocean, and I smile, content in my life, and the lessons I have learned along the way. I am a nurse, and after 26 years of giving of myself and my talents to those for whom I care, I realize more and more what nursing has meant to me.
Nursing has benefited me in more ways than one. Inherently restless, never one to sit still or in one place for long, I have taken full advantage of the varied opportunities to do wildly different kinds of nursing jobs. I’ve happily traded pediatric scrubs for street clothes and a lab coat when I went from pediatric med-surgery to psychiatric nursing, and just as easily transitioned back into scrubs when I tried out home healthcare in a rural area. I fed my lust for travel as a missionary nurse in the Philippines, as I learned Tagalog, the local dialect and struggled to adjust to a culture that was so much more grateful and so much less materialistic than my own.
When I had a temporary burn-out in my early 40’s, I went to work as a health reporter at a newspaper. I stayed there for two years, and garnered that year’s Georgia Nurses Association’s Media Award, reminding me that I was truly, a nurse at heart and I returned to the field.
The variety of my experiences, as myriad in color and shape as the pieces of a complicated puzzle, somehow fit together in one exciting, adventurous whole. I believe true, real nursing encompasses so much more than the physical realm. Caring for patients requires attention to three other, just as important, if less obvious, areas: the mental, the emotional and the spiritual arenas.
This was brought home to me early on, in my first year as an R.N. A pediatric nurse at a large teaching facility, I had a patient with priapism. Only 12 years old, he was in fairly constant discomfort and rang his call bell often. One evening, less than 15 minutes before it was time for me to give my report to the night nurse, I stopped by to answer his call. He was lying there, pain contorting his face, with big tears rolling down his cheeks. I realized that it wasn’t all about the physical pain. A few minutes talking to him revealed that he missed his mother terribly and wanted to call her, but he didn’t know how to use the phone card she’d left for him. “She can’t come see me because there’s nobody to take care of my little brothers and sisters,” he explained, sobbing by this point. “And we don’t have a car.” I glanced down at my watch. I had just enough time to sign out his Demerol and give it to him. I would be late with my report, no matter what the night nurse said. I showed him how to access an outside line and how to use the card. By the time he took his pill, he was talking to his mother, tears dried and a little smile on his face.
That moment has stayed with me, crystal clear. From the pediatric floor to the psych unit, from my stint as an occupational nurse to my most recent job as a school nurse, in all my “faces” as a nurse, holistic care remains my trademark, my unofficial calling card.
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